Ofcourse with this new insight a relationship , in some cases, will be build up.  Though a little bit awkward things just seem to get along just fine.

But there is always that nasty feeling. Things you feel again when you look back on things. That nasty feeling after bad things were said about you. The bad stuff they imply. Stuff you don’t actually tolerate. It just makes you angry all over again.

So at a certain point in this relationship building thing, when those feelings are still in play, and you are still pissed off and they come to ask for sexual advice the only thing you can say is:

“Well I always get a kick out of candle wax and ball gaggers…”

“Oh really?  What’s horny about candle wax?”

“Well, try it in the heat of the moment. You’ll see. You are gonna love it….”

And that’s how you deal with grudges…